Tuesday, November 28, 2017

When bowling makes you cry

Alex's first thought when he was told his cancer was back was, 'when can I bowl again?'  This guy LOVES bowling and he's good at it!  Earlier this year he bowled a 297 game - for those not nuanced in the finer points of bowling, a perfect score is 300.  He has every known bowling apparatus or tool known to man or sold online.  Do you know how hard it is to get excited about watching professional bowling?  I do!  But he watches it.
He had been planning on bowling with his grandpa tomorrow; the first time in weeks.  For someone who bowls twice a week, that's a lifetime in dog years.  Now he can't.  His blood test results today showed that he has virtually no white cells in his body - WBC count 0.3, ANC 0,0.  Its hard to get much lower.  What that means is he is neutropenic (word for the day) and can easily get an infection that could land him in the hospital - again.  I hate this; we had to let him know that bowling tomorrow was not a good option and after a few moments of disappointment you know what my incredible young man did?  He took it and rolled with it; he just keeps rolling with the punches, trying to look on the bright side and looking forward to next week when he might be able to bowl.
It's not the bowling that made my cry, it's how wonderful Alex is; how he just keeps going and how much he doesn't deserve this.
He's had some really great highlights in his life, i.e., playing for the US National Bowling Team in the Special Olympics World Games in 2015 but he's also had some tremendous lows......but he keeps going.....so we keep going.

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